Who else thinks its unfair?

when your pregnant especially with a difficult pregnancy and the father can still go out with his friends,drink, work, and in my case walk, completely ditching you. for the past three days i've only seen my bf for 2 hours and 15 minuets and then today he said hes taking a "guys day" and im left alone at home on bed rest. i have to go to the doctors today and see if the results came back because i may have preeclampsia (in fact im pretty sure i do) he knows im scared. i've had other complications and im scared and in a lot of pain. also stressed out which isn;t good. i don;t see how its really fair that we both did this and he's not taking any responsibility. has anyone else had this happen? did he change at all? im scared im going to wind up in the hospital on bed rest and im going to spend the most part of every day alone. my mom works all day and my friends(the few i have left) are at school. i think the men should have to suffer a bit to. not just leave all the pain up to us.